What is your secret sauce to being a difference maker in your life?
The basis of leading and making a difference is all about attitude and what it can—and cannot—do for you and those around you. I have a confession to make. Early in my career and youth, I was the one where my parents and co-workers would look at me and say, “Check the attitude at the door.” I did not have a bad attitude, but a very inquisitive one, and had not yet learned how to harness my “why” questions to team build. The way I asked questions did not build collaboration but separation.
To sustain success you cannot separate self-esteem, character, or attitude. All three must be part of your reality to lead authentically and to be a difference maker.
From The Difference Maker here are some areas to consider for reflection and change toward making the difference you desire:
- Attitude cannot substitute for competence
- Competence is what is needed to accomplish a job, but attitude completes the circle of contentment and daily joy, not only for yourself but also for those around you.
- Attitude helps with your health (mental and physical)
- Change if you can.
- If you cannot change your circumstances, then change your attitude.
- Attitude takes work.
- Personal growth should be part of your daily and weekly calendar.
- Don’t give up even when it feels like the easy thing to do.
Creating a plan to be a difference maker in attitude and understanding reality does not substitute for choosing your attitude. In 2011 on a brief phone call, I learned I no longer was employed due to a third round of downsizing. Was this a blow? Absolutely! However, I did not let the experience keep me down. I kept a forward vision and took actions one step at a time, even if they were baby steps toward the future I desired and deserve.
Moving forward has everything to do with a positive attitude, perseverance, and not sitting in a stinky pool of pity. I kept moving forward toward the next adventure in making a difference in other people’s lives. I hope you are one of those people.
Challenge Question: What is in your calendar to ensure you are not sitting in a stinky pool of pity?
Look UP & OUT!
Tracy Worley
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John C. Maxwell (2006). The Difference Maker
Tracy Worley (2015) Authentic Leadership, Authentic Self
Tracy A. Worley (2015) GRACEbreak Radio